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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 17.06.2025 00:51

How does one succeed in life?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why am I so unproductive when it's a holiday the next day?

Ask yourself:

Hangs out with loser friends.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What is the difference between anxiety and depressive neurosis?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Why does my best friend call me ugly and act like she’s joking, but today she looked at me and said “I wouldn’t lie to you”? What should I say back to her?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Do opposites attract? How often do you see weird couples like a guy/girl dating someone who is boring with no sense of humor ?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Why do I get bored with porn so quickly? I can watch maybe half a video (5 mins max) and then get bored and do something else. I don't watch porn often, just a teenager. 17.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

What I need from you?

Making more friends is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

That's it for today.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.